I just recently also had something end that didn't "work out", even though it probably wasn't the right thing. I really appreciate your honest words and vulnerability in the process of admitting this desire for a certain type of intimacy that we can't give ourselves or will into existence.
every time i read your posts it’s like a reflection of my thoughts that have been circling the days before. it’s really incredible. it feels on time and compassionate and full of love. your words are really special and i am so happy to subscribe! sending love right back to you.
Your honesty and vulnerability in sharing your experiences in love/dating is always soooo refreshing <3 Your story is one I feel like myself and all of my friends have gone through time and time again. Even if we are okay with and/or want a casual, no commitment situation, we still want passion, romance, and presence in our intimate experiences. It's kind of amazing (and sad?) that people such have black and white thinking when it comes to intimacy—the fear of giving too much (too much what? romance, passion, etc? for fear it will make the other person 'fall' for them?) Often it feels like men (and maybe women do this too? idk) are so afraid of losing their independence while operating on assumptions (that no one ever shared or confirmed btw) they act from a place of scarcity and imo that makes the entire experience soooo not hot
This is perfect. You’re a gem. I hope you feel replenished and cared for so you can keep going. Thank you for being brave/true enough to share- the sharing is such a tender way to rend the messiness and worry into a little gathering of hearts who’ve crossed/are crossing similar fields. I hope love continues to find you 💘
This resonates hard. Keep on going, miss. You're not wrong
SO GOOD. I sobbed. I cried. I laughed a little about the whole ass. And goddamit I loved this one.
thank you for being here
Going through some heartache myself right now and this resonated. ❤️
I just recently also had something end that didn't "work out", even though it probably wasn't the right thing. I really appreciate your honest words and vulnerability in the process of admitting this desire for a certain type of intimacy that we can't give ourselves or will into existence.
every time i read your posts it’s like a reflection of my thoughts that have been circling the days before. it’s really incredible. it feels on time and compassionate and full of love. your words are really special and i am so happy to subscribe! sending love right back to you.
"It just seems like they don’t like themselves enough to know what it means to really like somebody else." MMHM GURL keep writing. this shit is GOOD.
Your honesty and vulnerability in sharing your experiences in love/dating is always soooo refreshing <3 Your story is one I feel like myself and all of my friends have gone through time and time again. Even if we are okay with and/or want a casual, no commitment situation, we still want passion, romance, and presence in our intimate experiences. It's kind of amazing (and sad?) that people such have black and white thinking when it comes to intimacy—the fear of giving too much (too much what? romance, passion, etc? for fear it will make the other person 'fall' for them?) Often it feels like men (and maybe women do this too? idk) are so afraid of losing their independence while operating on assumptions (that no one ever shared or confirmed btw) they act from a place of scarcity and imo that makes the entire experience soooo not hot
This is perfect. You’re a gem. I hope you feel replenished and cared for so you can keep going. Thank you for being brave/true enough to share- the sharing is such a tender way to rend the messiness and worry into a little gathering of hearts who’ve crossed/are crossing similar fields. I hope love continues to find you 💘
thank you for your words right back